“If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love” (John 15:7–9; all Scripture quotations are from the English Standard Version unless otherwise indicated).
Finally, as we abide in the vine, we can experience power in our prayers.
Biblical prayer is not the self-centered shopping list recital many Christians think it is. Numerous preachers will quote John 15:7 and tell you that you can demand from God for whatever you wish. After all, He said He would do it for you. He promised! He has to fulfill His promise!
Read further, though. He answers our prayers so that He may be glorified and so that we may be much fruit. God does not answer our prayers so that we can have fancy houses and expensive cars. He does it so that we can glorify Him, bear fruit, and impart His life to those around us.
This should be our objective. The mature Christian wants to glorify God, bear the fruit of the Holy Spirit, and impart the life of Christ to those around him. The one who abides in Christ is eager to do evangelism and/or discipleship. Our prayers should be focused on a few important areas:
- Our genuine physical needs: Yes, we should pray for our needs. However, “needs” and “wants” are not the same things. I need food to survive; I do not need to eat at the most expensive restaurants in the New York area seven nights a week. I need a place to live; I do not need a mansion. I need money to survive; currently, that means I need to go to work. Because of my job’s location, a car is the most efficient way for me to get to work. I do not need a Lamborghini. (I may add that, if I lived closer to my job or worked in Manhattan, where I could take a train to work, I would not need that car.) Learn to discern between your needs and wants. Do not be so demanding about your wants.
- Our spiritual needs: We should spend more time asking God for wisdom, freedom from sin, the gifts of the Spirit, and so on. We should want God to be glorified in us. We cannot do that on our own. We need His strength, wisdom, and power.
- The genuine needs of those around us: Let us pray that God would prove Himself real to those around us as He heals them, meets their needs, and guides them through the difficulties of life.
- That God would be glorified throughout the world: How often do you pray for persecuted Christians in other countries? How often do you ask God to intervene with His grace and mercy in international affairs? How often do you ask God to be glorified in federal, state, and local governments?
The point of all of this is that the committed Christian will pray upwardly and outwardly. We pray that God is glorified (upwardly). We pray that His life and blessings may be imparted to others (outwardly). Even our prayers for ourselves should answer the question: What is God doing in and through your life? How can He use me to bless others? How can He make me more like His Son, Jesus?
To abide in Christ is to live a life in consistent connection with Him. We remain close to Him. We seek to be one with Him. Our greatest joy should be found in bringing Him joy, praise, and glory.
“I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me” (John 17:20–23).
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